A brand spanking New year!
As I look back at 2025, I see a lot of things I achieved and a lot of things I am proud of ….at the same time I see lot of things I would have liked to have done differently. I personally feel it’s the same for all of us…….
The truth of the matter is that everything looks simple and straightforward in retrospect and hindsight, but we do not have the luxury of hindsight when we make decisions based on information we have at present, with foresight.
A little detour here – At one part of my life, when I was a junior registrar in Colombo, I was mad about the life of US Neurosurgeon Ben Carson. I watched the movie Gifted Hands, read the book…..I even adopted the same beard style, which I still keep, though I hated Neurosurgery and got hooked with Trauma and Emergency surgery!!. He was a great example of how someone from a disadvantaged background triumphed in life against racism and discrimination through honest hard work and sheer determination – against all odds, he became the first black paediatric neurosurgeon in Johns Hopkins and became world famous for his innovative surgical procedure to separate conjoint twins. I would highly recommend the book and the movie!!
In his book, he mentions a decision matrix which i think, if used, can avoid most of the dilemmas that we have at the end of a year. He describes four key questions to ask at every crucial junction in life –
- What’s the best thing that can happen if I do this?
- What’s the worst thing that can happen if I do this?
- What’s the best thing that can happen if I don’t do it?
- What’s the worst thing that can happen if I don’t do it?
Very simple, infact almost foolishly simple….but surprisingly we don’t use this rational tool to simplify difficult decisions every day. In essence, by doing Ben Carson’s Decision matrix, we eliminate hindsight and convert hindsight into foresight….We visualise our future selves now and use the wisdom to gain insight into our present actions.
So the coming new year I have made a resolution to use Ben Carson’s decision matrix to every decision….infact I used it just now, as I was procrastinating whether to write this blog, which I have done quite a lot lately-….well not anymore!! I decided to put pen to paper [ stylus to my phone!] On a bench waiting to collect my groceries, as Ben Carson’s decision matrix showed me, the benefits far outweigh the risks. Infact, not only that, in the future I am going to use the same matrix to help patients decide on their future care!
That’s me signing off and wishing you a Great year ahead!!
Safe surgery till we meet again!!
LBS

